Do you want a healthy loving relationship?
In this article, I'm breaking down some hidden behaviors and mindsets that might be blocking you from finding the love you deserve. Before we dive in, if you prefer to watch the video from my Youtube Channel it's below the article:
1. You're Not Putting Yourself Out There
This one might seem obvious, but it's surprisingly common. Many of us say we want a loving relationship, yet we're not actively dating or engaging in situations where we could meet someone.
Take a moment to reflect—does this resonate with you? If you imagine yourself as a store, would your sign say "open" or "closed"? Being open doesn't just mean being on dating apps or going to events; it also means being emotionally available and ready to welcome someone into your life.
2. You Keep Dating the Same Type of Person
Have you noticed a pattern in your dating life? Maybe you keep ending up with partners who exhibit the same unhealthy behaviors, or relationships that unravel in the same way.
It's easy to internalize rejection or ghosting, but it's important to remember it says more about the other person than it does about you. However, if you find yourself in a cycle where relationships follow similar, frustrating patterns, it's worth exploring what's drawing you to these individuals and how you can break the cycle.
3. You Have a Set Idea About How You'll Meet Someone
Have you ever said, "Apps just aren't for me," or "I'm only going to meet someone in person"? While it's okay to have preferences, it's also important to recognize that online dating has become one of the most common ways people meet.
By closing yourself off to certain possibilities, you might be limiting your chances. Ask yourself: am I being open-minded about how love could find me?
4. You've Got a Fixed Idea of Who Your Partner Should Be
Do you have a checklist of must-haves—height, job, hobbies, or lifestyle details? While it's fine to have core values like wanting a non-smoker or someone who's kind, being overly specific can limit you from seeing the potential in people who don't fit a narrow mold.
It's worth considering whether these preferences are tied to past relationships that didn't work out, or childhood relational dynamics. Are you chasing a 'type, unknowingly? Has that historically led to disappointment or unhealthy dynamics?
5. Limiting Beliefs About Love
Sometimes, the biggest block is our own mindset. Take a moment to ask yourself:
Do I believe a healthy relationship is possible for me?
Do I think “all the good ones are taken"?
Do I feel like it's never going to happen for me?
If any of these thoughts resonate, they could be energetically blocking you from finding love. Limiting beliefs can create barriers, even if you're actively dating. Shifting these beliefs is a crucial part of opening yourself up to new possibilities.
Ready to Take the Next Step?
These five signs are just a starting point. If you'd like to dive deeper into shifting your mindset and energy to meet your person, grab my free guide: 7 Ways to Shift Your Energy and Mindset to Attract Your Dream Person.
This guide is packed with tools to help you start clearing these blocks and move closer to the healthy relationship you deserve.
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Louise xx
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